The presence of a loved one it is a gift which is priceless. Indeed, we can also present in front of him by letter, telephone, or fax images. But by being there for her, and she can share your feelings, concerns and love more fully and intensely. Thus, the quality of presence is also important. Make your presence as the carrier of happiness.
HEAR
Few people are able to give this gift. Because, most people would rather listen to, rather than listening to has long been known that the harmony of human relations is determined by the willingness to listen to each other. Give this gift for her. With attention to every word, indirectly we also have developed the patience and humility. To be able to hear well, make sure you are in a really relaxed and able to capture what is delivered intact. Face to face. No need to interrupt, criticize, much less judgmental. Let him finish, this allows you to respond right after that. Should not be a discussion or assessment. Just to say thank kasihpun will sound sweet to him.
SILENCE
As the words, in the silence there is also a strength. Silence can be used to punish, expel, or confuse people. But more than anything, Silence is also able to show our love to someone because it gave her "space". Especially if everyday we're used to love to advise, organize, criticize and even nagging.
FREEDOM
Loving someone is not to give us full rights to own or manage the life of the person concerned. Can we claim to love someone if we are always curb it? Giving freedom is one embodiment of love. The meaning of freedom is not "You're free to do what you want". Deeper than that, giving him the full confidence of freedom is to be responsible for everything that he had decided or done.
BEAUTY
Who would not be happy, if a loved one suddenly appear more handsome or beautiful? Shown also is a wonderful and beautiful gift you know. In fact no one if you mengkadokannya every day!
POSITIVE RESPONSE
Without realizing it, we often give a negative assessment of thoughts, attitudes or actions of people who we care about. As if nothing really from himself and absolute truth only to us. This time, try the gift of positive responses. Stated clearly and sincerely. Try to remember, how many times in the last week to thank you for all the things he does for you. Also remember, do you ever praised. Those two things, thanks and praise (and apologies) is a beautiful gift that is often forgotten.
WILLINGNES YIELD
Not all problems deserve a matter of contention. Moreover, until it becomes a great quarrel. You should consider, yes what a messy love affair sacrificed just because the matter? When you think of it, means you are ready to give gifts of "willingness to budge". Okay, you may be upset or angry because he came late to appointments. But if it happened only once, so why should trigger protracted fight? Willingness to budge can also release the hurt and invites us to realize that there are humans who are not perfect in this world.
SMILE
Believe it or not, force a smile is very remarkable. Smile, especially given sincerely, who could be defrost frozen relations, the encourager in despair, gloom lightening, even the restless soul of sedatives.
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